Faml 160 Blog #5
Today's blog is on a rather interesting subject which is
dating and marriage. One lessons that was learned is that prior to the 1930s
people normally wouldn't marry another person within approximately 3 1/2 miles
of their home (this is called Propinquity) locations would thus give them
shared schools friends, and they could reliably seek information and send out
feelers through their friends and through the community knowledge culture also
had a bearing on this. This has changed in today's society because of this
being the digital age, Giving us access to people with much different ways.
Sharing friends means there's a greater chance that you can
get better information on the video that is of interest. It's also if you share
schools in that it's hard for the other individual to hide out without comments
being made into their actions for their off-school activities this would be
part of the knowledge of the community. You'd also have a tense share community
standards and ways of living which is known as culture.
In the past few years Definition has changed, it now means
you're in a relationship. A new term is hanging out, which is usually done in
groups or perhaps some of you spending time together as a pair. Another term
that has come up is assorted dating which is a variety of people sorting out in
a small group (Which is also a term for hanging out).
And today's society there is the transfer international and out
of area dating. This necessitates a way to have wide range of experiences with
each other that allow you to get a taste for what the other person is going to
be like.
An interesting group also is the fact that there can be
resistance or difficulty family member into a relationship between two people
from either international or out of area marriages. This reinforces the need
for dating each other and not for just a short period of time. It needs to be
over an extended time. So that experiences on with customs and what the other
is looking for can come out during the dating process. There is a challenge in
this in that today's society is rapidly changing and even some things change
faster than what we are aware of.
when the interesting things brought up by the professor was
he had a young man that he was asking about dating. Yeah the young man
responded that they didn't go on dates they were dating and gave a pause for
the difference between date and dating. This brings up the need for it seeing
how the various populations are using the terms date, dating and hanging out.
A interesting subject that the professor also brought up with
the fact that if someone found an attractive person they're kind of hone in and
spend time with them, talk with them between class and on the phone, until such
time That they may reach the point where they no longer can stand each other.
This is a phenomenon that the professor called “date them, can't hate them”.
Person becomes a focus of your attentions until we no longer want to be with
him. We can influence the quality of our marriage largely by the way we date. For
those that are married this is still part of a solution and we do have a choice.
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