Blog Post 08

 

Families under stress.

There are nine important type of stressors in a family and they can be tensions between family members,  parent child relationships, marital strains, pregnancy, childbearing, finances, business, work, family transitions and strain, illness and family care strains, family loss (This can include loss of a friend or breakdown in a relationship) , family moving in and out of the home and family legal strains.

Stressor events can be lesbian two different categories first being eternal which would and the second being external that you would have normative-nonnormative; ambiguous- non ambiguous; rational- nonrational; chronic- acute; cumulative - isolated.

so any affected coping patterns would be denial for him says rather short or long term and to premises avoiding or scapegoating.

effective coping patterns wooden code development of strength likely to create a resistant family such as problem solving, celebrations, communications, good financial management, hardiness, health parentheses includes both physical and mental and parentheses social network, sharing, and traditions.

 

Now a reserved by the name of Coos KOS performed a study for measurement of family functioning. He wanted to measure stressors in family and came out with the following paragraph stress-people normally think of emotional reaction stress includes anxiety stressor events and crisis a researcher by the name of Hill came up with a model called ABCX. H Hell wanted to not just observe what happened but also explain what was going on during the event.

The a in this is the actual event that took place, B is resource response and see his perspective how we think about the problem. Paragraph was interesting at end of class professor brought up document and covenants 92 stating versus 121314 where Jesus had to grow into the light and truth.

What we think about the problem plays a role and how a family defines the problem. one of the things brought up was that shared experiences can help bring families together this is shown by young couples not having much income and needing to work together to come up with inexpensive meal and date ideas. Per the professor dating should proceed after marriage and not be dropped. Propane is much more than just getting by.

By the way is the professor expounded on this was to talk about dating preferences affirmative words to each other. We create the culture we want, not friends or family to talk about others. Don't just “get by” and this does not make us ready for the next stressor. And that's we can be sure to maintain our prayers studying scriptures and praying to God seeking revelation process which is next week subject and appliances.

one of the things I thought was meaningful mentioned in class was that complaining is an adult way of crying. What was not going into it's obvious that this is the case that when a person is complaining we should find out what the root of their complaint is and not just the surface perhaps we should be able to console and work things together with our family or partner.

A short discussion was held on the frontal lobe of the brain where creativity is at along with lol GICA L and DM this has the brain stem coming in at the base which controls the emotional which is on autopilot. With danger Present the Limbic system takes over. This is where we get the fight, flight, or freeze reaction. An example during class was if you're out hiking and a bear came out I will not go into this as the example used is not the way to handle a bear attack so I will not I do not want to pass on that information.

 Anxiety is a natural response to danger.